Aaaaargh...I wouldn't install it al all. I would write a long email to AIM and ask them how could they possibly offer you to the wolves!?

I saw that, stopped the installation and went over to Meebo. Happy happy Meebo with no evil Plaxo.

I want them to go away, too. They will never change. They are evil to the bone.

The dude actually had the nerve to announce they would stop spamming people (on purpose...but they still spam people 'by oops' and blame it on 'users') because "we have achieved our goals".

WTF! They so don't care about their 'users'.

I wouldn't trust Plaxo either. Sean Parker (the founder) is the definition of meglomaniac. He used to brag about how he holds the keys to everyone's personal data.

Thanks for the warning I guess... I didn't know Plaxo had such bad rep. Just wondering why anyone has to use AIM in a world of Adium and Trillian? Both app are able to do almost everything AIM can now.

Now that Google and LiveJournal are both on the Jabber bandwagon, I'm really looking forward to a time when I don't even have to sign into the AIM service to communicate with my friends and coworkers online. Never mind even thinking about installing their software. AOL needs to hurry up and die, IMHO.

I too am wondering why someone who is aware of the alternatives would actually install AIM itself? If for some reason Trillian is unacceptable, there is always GAIM for Windows.

Why not use meebo instead of downloading AIM software? Or was this for research purposes?

Reasons: 1) i just bought a VAIO so i can't do iChat/Adium; 2) installed Trillian but it isn't reading my buddy list - it displays it all as (null) so i needed to install AIM to fix that; 3) upgrading AIM means that i get 500 friends which i desperately need having long since hit the cap of 200 and now having three different AIM accounts.

All that said, i also want to be installing what most of my subjects are installing. They are installing Trillian (cuz they can mod it and it's ad-free) but they are not installing GAIM, Meebo, or any version of Jabber. I may be a geek but i try to stay somewhat on top of what teenagers are doing, not what geeks are doing. That doesn't mean i don't wimper when i run into things that i loathe in the process of doing what others are doing.

Hi Danah,

Sorry for the trouble you're having with your AIM install; when you finish installing AIM and the Plaxo setup wizard starts up, you can simply close the pop-up and everything should be ok. We won't automatically create a Plaxo account and your AIM should work without any more interruptions from Plaxo.

I hope you'd give us another chance though; we've changed our ways. We're not sending out those bulk e-mail blasts anymore and Ben, our CEO, apologized for our past behavior (see his blog post).

Drop me a line if you'd like to chat sometime; I'd love to get your ideas about how to make Plaxo better - Plaxo does relate social networking after all :)

Thanks,
Mark

It's nice to see Plaxo responding to blogs. Mark reached out to me as well. At least one person over there gets it.

I'm all about blogs! Well... at least after my incident anyways :D

BTW, maybe you gals can make it out to a Lunch 2.0 sometime! I'd love to meet face to face and chat about the social networking/web 2.0 space.

Well: I am happy to have my IM, e-mail and contacts connected--so that I can switch to conversation when someone is reading & answering my message. But Plaxo is clearly the last company I would give these details to. . .

Have you tried netvibes.com ? Last time I tried they had this Meebo page that is quite convenient.

And Plaxo are answering on an elite blog--not every blogger appears on "National TV" ;)

As Mark mentions earlier, Plaxo activation isn't a requirement for installing, or using AIM. It's there for people who want to connect their AIM buddies with their address book, as well as for people who like the Outlook integration.

If you're one of those folks that likes to use AIM for professional purposes, you might also consider AIM Pro, available at http://aimpro.premiumservices.aol.com/.

I love GAIM.
Mostly because my friends use Jabber/Google Talk and I didn't want to pay $25 for Trillian Pro.

Anyways, I think I'm on Plaxo because I signed up when I installed Triton a while back. But I've since changed emails. So I'm not bothered by it, if they actually do still spam.

Mark - i'm glad y'all are working to improve your PR but Plaxo has done nothing to provide people with proper data security, to fully opt-out when their friends opt them in, or to provide complete transparency about what you're doing with data. When you have TOSes that can change at any moment, there's no security. When you lock people out of their data, there's no security. The whole ethos of your company has been slimy since the beginning and with all of the data security nightmares going on out there right now, i don't have a lot of confidence in what you're doing.

You also have to understand that your company *has* engaged me in the past. Or, rather, Sean Parker did a nice job of calling me up to yell at me for over an hour when i wrote something negative about Plaxo on my blog two years ago.

How can you convince me to give you a fifth chance? Why should i trust you? Convince me with something more than you're listening. Because from my perspective, the apologies seem like PR moves not actual attitude changes.

danah

Danah, just curious - is there a reason why Trillian is not getting the job done?

Yeah - there's something broken. It says ((null)) all over the place in my buddylist. I can click on the nulls and send messages to random people but it's not very useful for knowing who's online and who i should contact....

suggestion:

download an old version of AIM from www.oldversion.com

:)

Street gossip seems to suggest that AIM will be disconnecting from Plaxo. Can anyone confirm?