Last night, Tribe.net held an open house party and it was great fun. Hundreds of folks showed up to give Tribe their support, meet the people they had been speaking with online and meet the creators. I was honestly stunned by how many people came (including those who flew across the country on their own dime). It was great to see the kinds online communities bleed into offline communities and people kept commenting about how reminiscent it was of the 1980s/1990s communities parties (like the Well). How invigorating!

One of my classmates sent me the funniest little test this evening. Try it out.

Read this question, come up with an answer and then click to the extended entry for the result. This is not a trick question. It is as it reads.

A woman, while at the funeral of her own mother, met this guy whom she did not know. She thought this guy was amazing, so much her dream guy she believed him to be just that! She fell in love with him right there, but never asked for his number and could not find him.

A few days later she killed her sister.

Question: What is her motive in killing her sister? (Give this some thought before you answer)

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One of my readers kindly pointed me to this collection of Halloween photos. On the fourth picture down, you’ll see that someone chose to go to a Halloween party as his Friendster profile. That’s a riot!

At various times, different sites have told me about how “mature” their community is, based on age statistics that they have. Apparently, they didn’t think that it was too odd that quite a few users were “81” or “100” or “69”.

Not only is it common for users to lie, but there’s an entire population of users who purposely invert their age. Thus, if they’re really 18, they mark themselves as 81.

To get a clear picture of this, go to myspace and do a search for all users 51-100. [I say myspace because it’s allows for an easy age search.] “Bill Clinton” is the only one on the front page who looks older than 51… most look like teenagers. But apparently, there are 4064 people over 51. Hmmm.

My roommate just posted about group hug, a fantastic site full of confessions. An example:

I’ve received a few dozen requests for contact information via Plaxo now. In theory, this sounds brilliant. Having just lost my cell phone and corrupted my addressbook, i’ve been begging folks to write to me with their phone, address, and birthday (*hint*hint*).

But something is amiss. Out of all of these requests, i’ve only *recognized* the names of 3 people who requested my information (including the one today). I get these blank requests from people asking for my contact information. No explanation. Perhaps we know each other via research or blogs, but there is no note or qualifier. It’s really odd. Besides, many of them are using email addresses that are either dead or from my website (not the ones that i normally use to write to people).

I’ve decided that i’m not going to put my data in Plaxo for anyone, whether i know them or not. I just don’t really feel comfortable with the fact that so many of the people who ask me for Plaxo contact information are completely foreign to me. Am i being weird?

Fernanda Viegas and i wrote an amazing paper for the HICSS conference called Digital Artifacts for Remembering and Storytelling: PostHistory and Social Network Fragments. It’s the first publication that i’m really proud of, as it starts to tease out some of the theoretical issues that our work was grappling with. And, in writing it, i learned sooo much. Sadly, it seems as though i won’t get to present the paper.

When we wrote it, we were under the impression that we would be funded to attend the conference. I had one conference coming to me and Fernanda did too. Well, it seems as though promises are easily broken… things change, or so i’m (not even directly) told. Of course, i kept my end of the bargain, which i now feel foolish for doing. It’s amazing how easy it is to remain bitter about a situation that should’ve been so good and so blatantly wasn’t.

By and large, i’m not that interested in the business side of Friendster, except for the speculation, gossip, and critique that emerges as a result. I’ve never had the opportunity to be so closely tied to the business endeavors of a technology, to see the scramblings and hype that emerge. I do admit that it’s utterly fascinating to watch it from a psychological and sociological standpoint. And i’m also continuing to be super appreciative of those who are motivated to track the business side of it all.

Out of the business news today, i’d like to make a pointer to: sippey’s comparison of Friendster to eBay

Ani DiFranco page to include the track list for Ani’s new album, “Educated Guess.” Some folks were wondering how i heard about it already. I don’t actually have some special in, but folks are often kind enough to keep me abreast of updates since i make that material available to so many. A kind fan sent me the track list came from Rolling Stone.

To all the fans who are so kind to keep me updated, *thank you* (especially Vaughn).