{"id":820,"date":"2003-09-16T15:33:27","date_gmt":"2003-09-16T15:33:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubuntu.my\/wp30\/archives\/2003\/09\/16\/am_i_a_suicide_girl.html"},"modified":"2003-09-16T15:33:27","modified_gmt":"2003-09-16T15:33:27","slug":"am_i_a_suicide_girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/archives\/2003\/09\/16\/am_i_a_suicide_girl.html","title":{"rendered":"am i a suicide girl?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Now, i get a lot of odd messages on Friendster, which often humor me.  Since i know way too many people on the damn site, many people think i&#8217;m collecting friends and ask me to add them.  I ignore these, but they make me smile.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, i rarely respond to anyone who writes me on Friendster (no time..), but i utterly love reading what people write.  In the last few weeks, a new trend in requests has emerged in my personal account: i keep getting messages from people asking for my suicide girl page, asking if i am a suicide girl, asking for my porn site, etc.  At first, this was a bit startling (although i have to admit that i was secretly honored since i adore the Suicide Girls).<\/p>\n<p>For those who don&#8217;t know, most of the <a href=\"http:\/\/suicidegirls.com\/\">Suicide Girls<\/a>  are &#8220;Pin-up Punk Rock and Goth Girls&#8221; (a.k.a. a really hot soft porn site for the younger funkier market).  Many Suicide Girls and other women with sites are on Friendster because 1) it&#8217;s fun; 2) they can connect with their friends; 3) it helps them connect with more people who may be interested in their site.  [It&#8217;s important to note that many of the Girls neither advertise their site nor their identity as a Girl.]<\/p>\n<p>Browsing through such women&#8217;s portraits, i realized something.  Many of them have collections of friends that consist of young punkster friends and older white businessmen&#8230;.  So do i.  Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>[Not so private note&#8230;. Clay &#8211; your identity play is fucking with my identity play.]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now, i get a lot of odd messages on Friendster, which often humor me. Since i know way too many people on the damn site, many people think i&#8217;m collecting friends and ask me to add them. I ignore these, but they make me smile. Actually, i rarely respond to anyone who writes me on [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}