{"id":279,"date":"2002-06-04T17:52:04","date_gmt":"2002-06-04T17:52:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubuntu.my\/wp30\/archives\/2002\/06\/04\/flirting.html"},"modified":"2002-06-04T17:52:04","modified_gmt":"2002-06-04T17:52:04","slug":"flirting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/archives\/2002\/06\/04\/flirting.html","title":{"rendered":"flirting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Flirting is most definitely one of my favorite pasttimes, and now <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sirc.org\/publik\/flirt.html\">there&#8217;s a guide to it<\/a>.  I long for the friends that i can flirt with, with no expectation or assumptions.  I miss the games that we would play, teasing one another until it hurt.  It&#8217;s actually one of the reasons that i adore my gayboy friends &#8211; flirtation without assumption.  Mmm&#8230; summer flirtation.<\/p>\n<p>But flirtation is like all social interaction &#8211; it&#8217;s a learned ability and not everyone gets it&#8230; likewise, not everyone gets the nuanced styles of flirtation, when they are meant to be fun and when they are meant to be serious.  I wish more people could read between the lines, but then again, that&#8217;s something we Americans don&#8217;t do so very well&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Flirting is most definitely one of my favorite pasttimes, and now there&#8217;s a guide to it. I long for the friends that i can flirt with, with no expectation or assumptions. I miss the games that we would play, teasing one another until it hurt. It&#8217;s actually one of the reasons that i adore my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gender-sexuality"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=279"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}