{"id":1853,"date":"2007-06-13T22:51:20","date_gmt":"2007-06-13T22:51:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubuntu.my\/wp30\/archives\/2007\/06\/13\/let_the_stalkin.html"},"modified":"2007-06-13T22:51:20","modified_gmt":"2007-06-13T22:51:20","slug":"let_the_stalkin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/archives\/2007\/06\/13\/let_the_stalkin.html","title":{"rendered":"let the stalking begin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I regularly receive press releases from companies that i promptly delete as a new form of spam.  Today, i received one that stopped me in my tracks:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You can now load software in your kids&#8217; BlackBerry and\/or cell phone that will be your watchdog (to prevent them from being approached by someone potentially trying to molest them)<\/p>\n<p>How it works &#8212; the program will send the parents a text message when a foreign IM, text message or e-mail comes into their child&#8217;s phone or PDA (anyone not on an approved phone contact list).<\/p>\n<p>The concept was thought of by Bob Lotter, a software publisher in Orange County, because he was so alarmed to learn that 56% of kids receive unwanted cell or PDA solicitations (which they don&#8217;t tell their parents about). (Sixty percent have been approached.) Lotter has also created a homepage for parents on resources they need to track strangers.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It was a peculiar press release because the company (a known PR agency) did not include any links and i can&#8217;t find much about Bob Lotter other than he seems to be connected to the scientology world.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been waiting for mobile stalking software for a while.  We already have GPS-driven stalking software that will let parents figure out where their kids are.  (Kids have figured out how to circumnavigate this by sending their phone off with their friends.)  And i&#8217;ve met plenty of parents who obsessively scour the phone bill to see who their kids are talking to and for how long.  But i&#8217;m quite impressed with this new level of parental stalking software.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also absolutely fascinated by the assumption that &#8220;your kid&#8221; will have a Blackberry and that this software will prevent your kid from being approached by a molester (at first, i thought that the advert was going to be for mace).  This software is not about protecting children from strangers that they meet face-to-face &#8211; it&#8217;s about giving parents control over who their kids talk with rather than teaching them how to navigate people.  Of course, i can&#8217;t wait until mobile text message spamming kicks in.  Kids will be getting hundreds of messages from people that they don&#8217;t know and thus their parents will be notified and notified and notified.  There&#8217;s nothing like a bit of spam to make this a complete mess.<\/p>\n<p>Anyhow, this just infuriates me and i can&#8217;t even offer a proper analysis except to scrunch my face in disgust.  As i&#8217;ve <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/archives\/2007\/01\/10\/a_few_more_thou.html\">written about before<\/a>, the stats on predators is pretty clear: it&#8217;s people that children know not strangers.  I kinda suspect that the #1 child molester (the parent) is not going to be on the list of people blocked.<\/p>\n<p>Surveillance destroys parent-child relationships &#8211; technology does not solve relationship issues. And yet, we keep building technology.  Why?  Fear sells.  These people will inevitably make money off of parent&#8217;s fears.  Le sigh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I regularly receive press releases from companies that i promptly delete as a new form of spam. Today, i received one that stopped me in my tracks: You can now load software in your kids&#8217; BlackBerry and\/or cell phone that will be your watchdog (to prevent them from being approached by someone potentially trying to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[225],"class_list":["post-1853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-youth-culture","tag-mobile-surveillance-stalking"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1853"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1853\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}