{"id":1146,"date":"2004-03-26T19:38:37","date_gmt":"2004-03-26T19:38:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubuntu.my\/wp30\/archives\/2004\/03\/26\/intimate_communities_socialemotional_support_technology_and_the_gender_divide.html"},"modified":"2004-03-26T19:38:37","modified_gmt":"2004-03-26T19:38:37","slug":"intimate_communities_socialemotional_support_technology_and_the_gender_divide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/archives\/2004\/03\/26\/intimate_communities_socialemotional_support_technology_and_the_gender_divide.html","title":{"rendered":"Intimate communities: social\/emotional support, technology and the gender divide"},"content":{"rendered":"

[Cross-posted to: Misbehaving.net<\/a>.]<\/p>\n

With social networks all the rage in places like Silicon Valley and the DoD, most of the focus has been on how social networks can help you access information, find jobs, track terrorists and, all to often, abuse your connections for personal gain. I just reread Claude Fischer’s “To Dwell Among Friends”<\/a> and various other social network papers.<\/p>\n

Historically and broadly speaking, men and women have different types of social networks and use them for different purposes. For example, most men don’t have any trusted emotional confidante other than their wife. Men use their social networks to address functional needs; women are more likely to use their networks for social\/emotional needs. Women were classically the group who maintained a family’s community social ties.<\/p>\n

While tools may not being built to explicitly help people people manage their social\/emotional support networks, they are obviously being used that way. From soc.support Usenet groups to LiveJournal to mailing lists and IM\/SMS, people are often using technology to reach out for social\/emotional support. There’s nothing more calming than logging into AIM and seeing your buddies all displayed. Often, that peripheral display provides enough social support to not necessitate certain kinds of communication. This is shared context, an opportunity for intimacy.<\/p>\n

When we talk about production of information, we’re often focused on the kinds of content that can be assigned metadata and useful to everyone. Yet, much of the content that we share in everyday life is about maintaining intimacy. We check in with one another. We share {{hugs}}.<\/p>\n

So, i have to ask… what kinds of social\/emotional support does technology provide you? How? Is this about supporting everyday interactions or providing access to a whole new world of support?<\/p>\n

[This entry is based loosely on Joi Ito’s discussion of “Full-Time Intimate Computing.”<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

[Cross-posted to: Misbehaving.net.] With social networks all the rage in places like Silicon Valley and the DoD, most of the focus has been on how social networks can help you access information, find jobs, track terrorists and, all to often, abuse your connections for personal gain. I just reread Claude Fischer’s “To Dwell Among Friends” […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gender-sexuality"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1146"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1146\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zephoria.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}